Basebalz, 70

ne ok bhm iso casual friendship 8 ) please read the entire profile

i live in the general area of tulsa. i am -------, interesting, and funny but, i'm also too honest for my own good, which is probably bad for me, but good for you ... if you "really" want the honesty so many claim to crave ... sit back and hang on:

1. i'm now retired which means that i no longer have the chiseled features or 6-pack of which i was once so proud. but, on the other hand, i'm considered a fairly handsome fella for an old goat.

2. my knees are now titanium, which means that "long strolls on the beach" are out, but dinner and show are possibilities. the knee problems have created a bit of a belly but, trips to the gym are finally helping to eliminate that.

3. because of 1 & 2 above, there's no "stallion" here, but with age comes knowledge, style, technique and persistence.

4. if you've read this far, you might as well know that i'm not single, nor seeking a bride. medical issues at home bring me to this point. i won't judge you, your past relationships, your physical shape or your hair, and ask the same kind of courtesy in return until you've "walked that mile in these shoes."

i'm hoping to find a long-term, very special "friend." one who understands and accepts my situation, my desires and my needs ... and has some of her own which need the occasional meeting or fulfillment; someone who is accepting and has a desire for something ongoing and perhaps long-term, even if only occasional; someone mature in mind, but young in spirit.


a. i seek a very special casual friendship, a casual lover with whom i can share many of life's pleasures. but, in case you missed it, i'm already married.

b. i am already married! no, i'm not going to leave her.

c. please figure out what you want or need before contacting me. don't proceed agressively then suddenly have problems with points a & b.